50 Pick up lines: questions that actually work

Written by Ryan Cross

In this blog post, you will find 50 pick-up line questions to ask girls to evoke laughter and signal that you are interested in dating her.


A study published in Computers in Human Behavior analyzed which openers and pick-up lines worked best on Tinder and uncovered a pattern: apparently, girls prefer pick-up lines that are either (genuinely) funny or contain a compliment, as opposed to the old-fashioned, cheesy ones.


I categorized the best pick up lines questions into eight different groups:

  • Sexual questions with a twist
  • Conversation starter pick up lines questions
  • Pick up lines questions after you get her number
  • Challenging pick up line questions
  • Compliment pick up line questions
  • Bold pick-up line questions
  • Cheesy but cute pick-up lines questions

 50 Pick up line questions


Sexual questions with a twist

Pick up line questions containing sexual elements and humor are among my favorite messages to send women. These texts not only create sexual chemistry but also shows your confident and funny side.


One of my favorite things to lick in my bed is candy. Do you know what what's the other? Ice-cream.

Do you know what dirty thing is on my mind? It's my shoes. I should clean them.

Do you know what dirty thing is on my mind? It's my shoes. I should clean them.

Those beautiful eyes, perfect shape, and smooth skin… hmmm. But forget about me, how's your day?

You: Do you want to have good sex? No. Well, you can come over, then.
So I recently learned that 93% of women masturbate in the shower, and the other 7% sing in the shower. Do you know what song they sing?
Her: No.
You: Well, I guess you're part of the 93%

I was wondering why does this beautiful, long-legged, tanned, slim, smooth-skinned, hot guy is talking to this girl? I think because you're cute.

Dinner first, or can we go straight for dessert? Under dessert, I mean… strawberry ice cream.

I know this may be too much for you because we barely know each other. I don't want to look crazy, but I just can't hold it in me. Do you know what I think about you? I think you really like me 😛

Conversation starter pick up line questions


If you can’t come up with a catchy opener, here, I listed a few interesting and playful conversation starter pick-up line questions.

You: Can I ask you a personal question?
Her: Of course.
You: Do you like strawberry shakes?
Her: This is not a personal question, but yes 😛

You: I'm sorry, were you talking to me?
Her: No.
You: Well then, please start.

Am I the perfect guy for you? No! But do I strive to get better every day? Still, no.

You: Was it you who did this?
Her: What?
You: Making me think about what to text you first, instead of working.

You: Can you hold this for a sec? 🍺
Her: Sure.
You: Thanks! I got this to you. I hope you like pina colada 🍹

Pick up line questions after you get her number


Many times, I struggled to not come off as weird or needy after I got the girl’s number. Here are some of my favorite lines that are either cute and funny or lure girls into thinking that they are actually the ones who chase you.

It was incredible to meet you. Do you always do this with innocent guys?

I found you a hot guy. Don't you think you should date him?: facebook.com/[yourprofile]

Are we married now?

Can you tell me why I'm still smiling since we met? 😊

Are you this nice to every guy or just those to who you are attracted? 😛

Do you always distract innocent guys at the streets/clubs/school with your smile? 😁

Do you know what the most surprising thing about you is? I will tell you on our next date. 😛

You: Would you please stop it?
Her: What?
You: Thinking about our first conversation… I almost feel your thoughts 😛

Challenging pick up line questions


We always value those things that take time and effort to get. This is behind the psychology of challenging pick-up line questions. They convey a message that you are a high-status guy in charge of deciding which girls he wants to date. These lines are also interesting and playful.

Let's see how we fit together. Skittles or M&M's?

What makes a perfect day for you? Netflix all day, getting lost in a museum, or cuddling with me?

If you could date anyone on Earth, would you want me to wear a suit or a leather jacket?

Would you rather date me if I was a good dancer or a good kisser? Fortunately, I'm both. 😎

Would you rather date me if I was wealthy or a great lover?

Had you rather flirt with me or talked to me about something deep?

How is my third funniest texting buddy? 😛

Can you promise you won't take advantage of me on our first date? 🙄

Compliment pick up line questions


Compliments are also great to generate interest and attraction in girls. If you already feel the vibe between you, sometimes a cute complimenting pick up line question can be useful.

So, aside from taking my breath away, what do you do for a living?

Did your license get suspended for driving all these guys crazy?

You know what's beautiful? Read the first word.

I thought happiness started with an H. Why does mine start with U?

Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears.

Your hand looks heavy; can I hold it for you?

Wouldn't we look cute on a wedding cake together?

Bold pick up line questions


If you have built up a dominant, self-confident image about you in her mind, you can evoke more positive feelings in girls by being very bold. Here are some highly confident pick up line questions you can always use:

What do you do this week, besides you write our names and draw little hearts around them?

You: Do you have some raisins?
Her: No.
You: How about a date?

If I were to ask you for sex, would your answer be the same as your answer to this question?

Tomorrow, you'll have the best day of your life. You know why? Because you can hang out with me.

What does turn you on the most? My looks or my scent?

I believe in following my dreams. Can I have your Instagram?

Cheesy pick up line questions


Classical pick-up lines rarely generate attraction in women because most of them are either very sexual or desperate (or both). However, these are actually perfect lines to have some fun if you already like each other.

Are you a loan? Because you have my interest.

Are you a charger? Because I'm dying without you!

Are you a broom? Because you've swept me off my feet!

Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.

Are you an electrician? Because you're definitely lighting up my night.

Are you Australian? Because you meet all of my qualifications.

Do you have a name, or can I call you mine?

You: Is your name Gillette?
Her: No, why?
You: Because you're the best a man can get.